觉得楼下那位要求女孩sleepover的男孩，根本没把女孩当女朋友

能这么脸不红心不跳的要求女孩留宿的，有点闺蜜的感觉，但凡对女孩有点性幻想，肯定不好意思说纯属讨论，没有得罪之意

如果人少， 要小心。 高中的孩子， 不论男女， 分寸都是懂得， 不要家长提醒。 我是鼓励的

如果是dating, kiss是肯定有的

说 yes, 那也三观一致了

没必要特意贬低对方啦。老爸也都是从男孩儿成长起来的，小孩子的需求自己也经历过嘛，互相多理解啦

Prevalence of hook-ups at Duke? - Colleges and Universities A-Z / Duke University - College Confidential Forums

"Sex in the stacks" is one of Duke's five widely accepted unofficial graduation requirements, which also include scaling Baldwin Auditorium, driving backwards around the Duke Chapel traffic circle, traversing the East Campus tunnels and having sex-yet again-in the Duke Gardens. "When you walk around the gardens at night you hear noises," said Trinity sophomore Helen Zayac. "Its funny. You know what's going on."

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"I got bruised having sex in the stacks, dirty having sex in the gardens, and asbestos poisoning from tunneling," said a Trinity senior who wishes to remain anonymous. "I guess doming was the most fun-there's nothing more exhilarating than seeing East Campus stretched out below you."

 

In recent years, Duke University has developed a reputation for debauchery. A steady beat of scandal—from the Duke lacrosse rape case to Karen Owen’s 2010 "thesis" on her bedroom exploits with her numerous Duke lovers, to various racist or sexist fraternity parties—paints a picture of a university gone wild.

 

While that picture may be slightly exaggerated, a recent study found that over half of Duke students had participated in a "hook-up" in the previous six months. That means that they had had "sexual activity with someone outside of an exclusive romantic relationship."

女孩先拒绝几次就知道他是否是诚心诚意的了

小姑娘怎么明白自己需要什么，如何捍卫自己的立场和需要，更加重要啦。就算这个男生没提出要求，下个男朋友，下下个呢？

其实在我看来，正大光明地提出要求，比在party上乘人之危要好得多

愿意等的就是愿意长久发展的，想迅速发展关系的十有八九只是为了性。

如果人家相互确定， 家长最好不要阻拦， 提供方便？

建议多去欧洲旅行， 特别是法国和荷兰， 开开眼界哈哈哈

现在孩子都有车， 不在家里， 你逼孩子到外面去？看看初中高中的女生都穿的啥样， 谈论哪些？你要孩子还是一天到晚小天使一样， 不要压制

禽兽不如还是不如禽兽？lol这年头当男生也难。